downer days

THere are times I still want to find someone and unload all the pain of my marriage onto. All my friends already know, they’ve heard it all many times over. I want new validation, I want to feel less alone in this. I’m certainly not the first, only or most wrong divorced woman on the … Continue reading

Bullying through exclusion: looking for the middle ground

Imagine having your child lying in your lap sobbing because her own friends were hurting her feelings during her birthday party. That’s a special pain. “what’s going on baby? Why are you so upset?” [long involved tale of being excluded over and over] “…and then they told me I wasn’t their friend!” [struggling to stay … Continue reading